I happened to stumble on your book when
I was wandering around the library one day out of boredom. I checked it
out, out of curiosity. I have been a bisexual since I could remember, but being
only 18, and having just came out, I was interested in a resource. I
immediately related to many of the topics. I have never felt more like I was
inside my own head. All the things that I think, all the things that I
experience, hate and invisibility, were there. I felt like at last, someone
understood me. My first serious girlfriend broke up with me last week, because
she said that she couldn't deal with the idea that I would leave her for a man,
and she found it hard to believe that I loved her because I was a bisexual. I
have dealt with comments like this from so many lesbians i have befriended, and
your book opened my eyes. I am not the only one, and there is a Bi community
that will welcome me, despite my inability to "pick a gender". Thank you so
much, I have never felt so much at home in my orientation, or so happy in my
choice to be openly Bi.
--S.H.
2-10-2006
"I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THIS
BOOK to anyone who is curious about bisexuality, loves a bisexual person, or
thinks they might be one. Bi America has been waiting for a book like this.
Written in an engaging, witty, and conversational style, it vividly paints a
picture of the hopes, dreams, and struggles of bisexual people in the
- Beth A. Firestein, PhD, Licensed Psychologist, Inner Source Psychotherapy
"ENJOYABLE AND INFORMATIVE. . . . There is no question that this book
will provide readers with a better understanding of the social, sexual,
political, and HIV-associated situations of bisexuals and help them to quell the
related misunderstandings that surround them. Burleson writes beautifully and
provides a very evenhanded depiction of the bisexual in
- Martin S. Weinberg, PhD, Professor, Department of Sociology,
"This book OFFERS IN-DEPTH KNOWLEDGE OF BISEXUAL ACTIVISM AND
COMMUNITIES in the
- Serena Anderlini D'Onofrio, PhD, Associate Professor, Department of
Humanities, University of Puerto Rick, Mayaguez; Editor of Plural Loves:Designs for Bi and Poly Living
I just finished your book a couple weeks ago and I can't tell you how much it has helped me! I've on a bulletin board for married women who love women, some of whom are Bi. I've recommended your book at least 20 times since I finished it...it seems that there is always a question someone asks that you've answered in your book!
Seriously...thank you. It's so difficult to find information on
bisexuality here, and in spite of the internet, I still found myself at a
loss for direction at times. Your book was a Godsend!
Best Regards, Laurie
8-19-2005